Redefining Success: A Personal Journey

Growing up, the corporate ladder often appears as an attractive goal—one associated with power, expertise, and success. The reality, however, includes early mornings, hurried desk meals, and a dependence on stimulants like matcha. Despite these challenges, I cherished my role and the career I crafted over 18 years in media, advertising, technology, and business development. Through this journey, I gained invaluable knowledge about myself and the world.

Unlike some who know their career path early, I had no clear plan. I enjoyed talking, leading me to study communications. My outgoing nature naturally led me to commercial roles. This path eventually resulted in a successful career, filled with promotions and opportunities to collaborate with leading tech companies and brands. I thoroughly enjoyed my work for a considerable period.

While proud of my accomplishments, the relationships I built stand out most. The human aspect of business has always been important to me, and many colleagues remain close friends. Given how much time we spend at work, meeting people who enhance those years is something I treasure.

As I attained higher positions, I noticed a shift in focus from enjoying work to hitting targets and increasing performance metrics. This shift highlighted the difference between excelling at a job and genuinely enjoying it. Many friends thrive in demanding corporate roles, yet I realized that their definition of success differed from mine. It took time to understand that an individual’s path to success is unique.

‘Losing My Dad Reminded Me How Precious Time Is’

A pivotal change occurred for me a few years ago. Tragically, my father, Niall, passed in May 2023. His sudden loss made me realize the fleeting nature of time. Previous measures of success, such as promotions and salaries, felt less significant. My father loved life and believed in pursuing happiness, sparking my reflection on how I spent my time.

Grieving reshaped my perspective. I questioned the energy I devoted to a future that might never come while possibly neglecting present joy. Earlier this year, I accepted a senior position in a new company, but quickly found it wasn’t right. In the past, leaving might have seemed like failure, but I chose to listen to my discomfort and pursue happiness.

Our lives often focus on future preparation, neglecting present enjoyment. My dad’s loss emphasized the value of time. I’d ask myself what he’d advise if here. Though disciplined in saving and investment, I hadn’t considered early use of those resources. I realized financial planning could offer immediate options, not just future security. So, in 2026, I left my job without another opportunity in sight, prioritizing personal fulfillment over corporate alignment.

The decision to resign wasn’t simple. Leaving a steady income at my age incited fear and doubt. For nearly two decades, financial discipline was about creating options rather than wealth. With those options now available, I took the leap, keen on not regretting missed opportunities. My resignation was no dramatic occurrence—just the start of a new phase.

‘Do The Thing That Scares You’

Although uncertain about the future, I’m exploring freelancing, consulting, and part-time work, embracing uncertainty. Questioning the life you built is okay. Pride in achievements can coexist with the desire for change. I’m not advocating for everyone to quit their jobs, just encouraging exploration where possible.

“Do the thing that scares you” became a mantra. For years I avoided social media, yet sharing my story on Instagram resonated with many, boosting my followers significantly. It’s been reassuring to see others relate and engage. This experience led me to found The Common Club, a community for those rethinking career paths and seeking like-minded individuals.

Starting anew isn’t wrong, regardless of age. Building a financial runway, even slowly, creates choices. It doesn’t equate to lifelong financial independence, but offers the flexibility to chart new directions. Approaching my 40th birthday, I’m more excited about the future than I’ve been in years.

Lisa Filgas, 39, resides in London, U.K., with her partner, Jouvan. She enjoys traveling, reading, reformer Pilates, live music, and reality TV. After leaving her corporate role, she’s exploring new opportunities and sharing her journey online.