Experiences of Sexual Assault Resurface Amid Cornell Allegations

Olivia Petter felt shaken after hearing about sexual assault allegations at Cornell University. The story echoed her past experiences. Petter recalled receiving unsettling messages in boarding school in England. She described older boys targeting her and her friends from age 13.

Petter remembered incidents such as boys pulling down girls’ clothing in public settings. At 17, she experienced an unwanted advance from a boy. She explained how her response was hindered by shock and disbelief.

Petter noted the prevalence of assaults that went unrecognized at the time. Without the right language, these experiences were not properly acknowledged at the time. Later, this culture followed her into university.

The recent allegations at a Cornell fraternity have spurred many to share their own assaults online. A former student, Jane Doe, sued the university, alleging drugging and rape. Some accused men have denied these claims.

Social media has seen the rise of #IamJaneDoe, encouraging open discussions about sexual assault. Other universities acknowledge this problem, with student newspapers addressing ongoing issues.

For survivors, whether old or new, reliving assault through news coverage can be triggering, say specialists.

Hannah Braunstein, a psychotherapist, says such news stories revive traumatic memories for those who survived sexual assault. Emotional responses can intensify, causing distress and flashbacks.

Erin Smith, a mindfulness coach, felt intense emotion learning about Cornell’s case. Reading the details resurfaced memories of her childhood assault. Braunstein highlighted the urge to keep reading for solace, but it often worsens feelings.

To manage stress, Braunstein suggests limiting news and focusing on one’s surroundings. Techniques like grounding are beneficial.

Smith found relief outside social media through outdoor activities and music. Still, she channels her anger into writing. Petter also writes, striving to utilize this energy for meaningful discussions on sexual assault.

Petter encourages conversations, especially among men. Challenging derogatory remarks within their circles can lead to change. Smith shared that for many, the Cornell case is deeply personal. It resonates with a shared experience of assault these women have lived. “Jane Doe is all of us,” Smith remarked.