Vincent Pastore: Remembering a Beloved Actor

The cast of “The Sopranos” gathered once more, but for a sorrowful occasion – the funeral of Vincent Pastore. The event took place on Thursday in New York, where family and friends bid farewell. Pastore’s “Sopranos” co-star, Steven Van Zandt, served as a pallbearer, assisting in carrying the casket. In tribute to his Navy service, Pastore’s casket was adorned with an American flag.

Pastore’s daughter fondly recalled him, saying, “He was a man who lived out his dreams … but he knew how lucky he was.” This sentiment was shared during an emotional service. She further expressed how he extended his generosity in various ways, whether through substantial tips or friendly gestures towards police officers.

Reflecting on his relationship with Pastore, Van Zandt shared that he remained in regular contact with him up until his passing. “We just happened to call him two days ago, the day before he died,” Van Zandt said, mentioning a recent conversation with his wife Maureen. “He was unique, and we will miss him greatly,” he added.

Stephen Villano, Pastore’s close associate, emphasized that Pastore differed greatly from his on-screen personas. “He said, ‘I’m an actor. I play a character.’ So, people might assume that’s who he was, but they would be mistaken,” Villano explained. “He was generous, kind, and compassionate,” he added.

Villano also highlighted Pastore’s support for various causes, including veterans, the police department, and St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital. “He would often participate in events supporting widows, orphans, and others in need,” Villano said.

Pastore passed away on August 1, as confirmed by his manager, Robert Attermann. “Vinny either passed away yesterday or today at home in The Bronx,” Attermann stated. “Representing Vinny for over 30 years was a privilege,” he continued, adding that Pastore was known not only for his role as “Big Pussy” but for being a beloved figure to those close to him.

Beyond “The Sopranos,” Pastore’s career included roles in “Blue Bloods,” “Law & Order,” and “General Hospital,” among others. His movie appearances featured “Goodfellas,” “A Bronx Tale,” and “Gotti,” showcasing his remarkable acting range.

“He loved being an actor,” Attermann remarked. “His passion for acting was evident, and he was always encouraging and supportive of younger talent.”