Concerns Over Unsafe Home Conditions

Dear Eric,

I am the eldest in a family of three siblings. Recently, my middle sibling has been visiting the youngest sibling’s home to take care of their child. During these visits, my middle sibling noticed that the home is in a concerning state of disorder.

Previously, the home was cluttered, but it seems the situation has worsened significantly. The last time I visited, I noticed the same level of disarray. I assumed they were just going through a busy period and viewed the situation with understanding. However, neither my parents nor I visit often, partly due to the constant mess.