An American student in Vietnam, Nguyen Thi Quynh Tam, has accused a man of rape during a holiday trip in July. According to Tam, aged 24, she felt pressured by the accused’s family to accept compensation and refrain from involving the authorities.
Tam’s disclosure of her experience marks a rare instance of public discussion of sexual assault in Vietnam. Her decision to speak out aims to raise awareness and protect other women from similar experiences. ‘I’m doing this not just for me. But for everybody else that has been harmed,’ Tam said, showing her determination during an interview in Hanoi.
Her account is supported by interviews, a formal police complaint, and interactions with U.S. and Vietnamese officials. After Tam reached out to American authorities, officials confirmed the legal charges against the 23-year-old man, affirming adherence to Vietnamese law.
A Vietnam foreign ministry spokesperson indicated the initiation of legal proceedings but did not comment on alleged pressures from police to resolve the matter privately. The accused has not responded to inquiries.
Tam, having moved to the U.S. at age five, returned to Vietnam for a banking internship. She joined acquaintances for a resort trip near Hanoi. During the stay, she found herself locked out of her designated room and slept in another one with an unlocked door. She awoke to the accused man kissing and assaulting her despite her resistance.
In communication with her boyfriend in the U.S., Tam disclosed the attack. Her struggle with self-blame and mental distress followed, compounded by the noted family’s wealth and political influence.
The accused apologized twice, on July 9, both in a note and a phone call. Tam then met with the man’s father, who suggested monetary compensation for not pursuing police action.
While the father acknowledged some intimacy, he denied exerting pressure to withdraw the case. However, police involvement on July 21 led Tam to a distressing reenactment of the incident, fueling her feelings of loss and trauma.
Despite advice from police to settle the matter, Tam refused to sign any statements renouncing legal options. Her experience resulted in seeking mental healthcare.
Support from the U.S. Embassy in Hanoi proved initially inadequate, prompting her family’s Senator Ted Cruz to intervene. This led to an apology from the embassy, clarifying its initial actions.
The State Department, aware of the case, reiterated its commitment to ensuring American safety and security abroad, citing legal and privacy restrictions limiting further commentary.

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