The Evolving Meaning of Gossip

The leadup to Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s New York City wedding sent rumors into overdrive. Without confirmation from the couple, speculation about their wedding details became the talk of TikTok and news outlets. Only the couple and their guests know the real story. The public remains intrigued by gossip.

In NPR’s “Word of the Week” series, the origins of the word “gossip” are explored. This term has roots in Old English, as explained by Jess Zafarris, who writes about word origins. “Gossip” comes from “godsibb,” meaning “sponsor or godparent.” Over time, it evolved into Middle English, signifying a close friend or neighbor. This term then started to describe women friends socializing together. Zafarris noted it was a word for women who gathered, often attributed to idle chat about personal affairs.

Historical records from the 1600s indicate “gossip” referred to female friends present at childbirth. By the 16th century, negative gendered connotations emerged. “Gossip” began describing women spreading rumors, shaping the term’s modern perception.

Gossip as a Feminist Act?

Feminist writer Silvia Federici discusses gossip’s negative transformation as reflecting societal changes. During the early Middle Ages, women held power and were valued in communities. Federici noted that women could once bring accusations to court. By the end of the Middle Ages, increasing misogyny erased these rights. In Europe, proclamations urged husbands to keep wives at home, controlling their participation in public life.

Federici believes the derogatory view of gossip aimed to diminish women’s roles and voices. By the 17th century, “gossip” lost its original meaning. It became associated with idleness and rebellion. She emphasizes that the devaluation of gossip links to undervaluing women’s knowledge and actions.

Tova Leigh, author of Good Girls Gossip, supports Federici’s analysis. She acknowledges malicious gossip exists but argues that equating all female conversation with its negative forms is misleading. Leigh suggests reclaiming “good gossip,” where honest and supportive conversations empower women. Women should feel safe to discuss their lives, fostering truth and solidarity.